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Male Performer Chat: The Cellphone Dilemma
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gofish
6/28/23 @ 1:12pm
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One often sees models on their cellphones and the odd complaint from viewers about encountering these moments. While from the viewer side it might be frustrating when entering a chat room to find a model on their cellphone and not an immediate response to anything one might message , the fact is what is a model to do when it seems the vast majority of viewers never actually talk in a chatroom. Face it when a model spends hours upon hours online just to see viewers come and go in the chatroom and not saying anything there has to be a degree of frustration on their part. That is where the cellphone takes over, so just a suggestion to anyone who might read this posting just give thought to at least saying HELLO when entering a chatroom. You might just get a response & if it is not the one you were expecting you can very easily leave, 
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the fact is what is a model to do when it seems the vast majority of viewers never actually talk in a chatroom.
Can I suggest The Times crossword.... It's devilishly difficult.
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Can I suggest The Times crossword.... It's devilishly difficult.
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Face it when a model spends hours upon hours online just to see viewers come and go in the chatroom and not saying anything there has to be a degree of frustration on their part.
Face it when a customer goes into a room to do as he sees fit and not necessarily comply with your views.
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Face it when a customer goes into a room to do as he sees fit and not necessarily comply with your views.
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Fish, are you that bored you have to rehash issues? Create a new topic and hopefully something fun to discuss instead of creating more discord.
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Can I suggest The Times crossword... It's devilishly difficult.
You turn me on with that lexicon so cultured 🌟devilishly 🌟
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Well when a user enters a room, sees the model on their cellphone, and then gets a message saying "Hello [insert username] ", that's a combo of complete disinterest on the part of the model. And on top of that looking bored. Adios.
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I was with a model today. He said he was anxious about the fact that his tips were poor. I thought it was nice for him to be honest with me.
I tipped him 100 credits and he thanks me and smiles.
Then he proceeds to pickup his cellphone and start viewing social media.
Geez. No wonder his tips are poor. What a way to treat someone that actually listens, empathizes, and tries to help with substantial tip.
I don't think anyone understands old fashioned customer service any more.
If they want to take selfies and check social media all day, stay at home.
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I tipped him 100 credits and he thanks me and smiles.
Then he proceeds to pickup his cellphone and start viewing social media.
Geez. No wonder his tips are poor. What a way to treat someone that actually listens, empathizes, and tries to help with substantial tip.
I don't think anyone understands old fashioned customer service any more.
If they want to take selfies and check social media all day, stay at home.
Thanks for allowing me to rant. Quote
Created by:
gofish
7/11/23 @ 11:24am
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Location: IN YOUR DREAMS
Posts: 1,727
I was with a model today. He said he was anxious about the fact that his tips were poor. I thought it was nice for him to be honest with me.
I tipped him 100 credits and he thanks me and smiles.
Then he proceeds to pickup his cellphone and start viewing social media.
Geez. No wonder his tips are poor. What a way to treat someone that actually listens, empathizes, and tries to help with substantial tip.
I don't think anyone understands old fashioned customer service any more.
If they want to take selfies and check social media all day, stay at home.
Thanks for allowing me to rant.
Well said there Allen and one might hope with all the social media that model might read that it might include this forum posting.
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I tipped him 100 credits and he thanks me and smiles.
Then he proceeds to pickup his cellphone and start viewing social media.
Geez. No wonder his tips are poor. What a way to treat someone that actually listens, empathizes, and tries to help with substantial tip.
I don't think anyone understands old fashioned customer service any more.
If they want to take selfies and check social media all day, stay at home.
Thanks for allowing me to rant.
Well said there Allen and one might hope with all the social media that model might read that it might include this forum posting.
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I just abandoned a nice looking young man, a new model, without tipping, whose left hand was holding his cell phone in reading range and whose right hand was picking his nose. Do you seriously think I'm supposed to talk to somebody this ignorant? He amazingly claims 10 languages. IMO, all this model is good for is a naked quickie.
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One often sees models on their cellphones and the odd complaint from viewers about encountering these moments. While from the viewer side it might be frustrating when entering a chat room to find a model on their cellphone and not an immediate response to anything one might message , the fact is what is a model to do when it seems the vast majority of viewers never actually talk in a chatroom. Face it when a model spends hours upon hours online just to see viewers come and go in the chatroom and not saying anything there has to be a degree of frustration on their part. That is where the cellphone takes over, so just a suggestion to anyone who might read this posting just give thought to at least saying HELLO when entering a chatroom. You might just get a response & if it is not the one you were expecting you can very easily leave,
You are absolutely right, many people enter my room without saying hello, normally I am in front of the camera at least 8 hours a day and I have seen the same user names come and go up to 10 times in 8 hours, I am someone who talks a lot during transmission, exercise, laugh and sing, but I never stop being cordial and greeting, but there are times that after 6 hours and not talking to anyone and see that users only enter to see you and not talk to you, you can get bored and the phone takes control of the situation, but I have never stopped watching the screen or attend a "hello" from whoever enters when I'm watching. How can I make a proposal for the forum, I would like to start a thread on "whether or not you really like to be greeted or not at the first instance", as I feel this makes a lot of people run, maybe I am invasive?
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You are absolutely right, many people enter my room without saying hello, normally I am in front of the camera at least 8 hours a day and I have seen the same user names come and go up to 10 times in 8 hours, I am someone who talks a lot during transmission, exercise, laugh and sing, but I never stop being cordial and greeting, but there are times that after 6 hours and not talking to anyone and see that users only enter to see you and not talk to you, you can get bored and the phone takes control of the situation, but I have never stopped watching the screen or attend a "hello" from whoever enters when I'm watching. How can I make a proposal for the forum, I would like to start a thread on "whether or not you really like to be greeted or not at the first instance", as I feel this makes a lot of people run, maybe I am invasive?
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You are absolutely right, many people enter my room without saying hello, normally I am in front of the camera at least 8 hours a day and I have seen the same user names come and go up to 10 times in 8 hours, I am someone who talks a lot during transmission, exercise, laugh and sing, but I never stop being cordial and greeting, but there are times that after 6 hours and not talking to anyone and see that users only enter to see you and not talk to you, you can get bored and the phone takes control of the situation, but I have never stopped watching the screen or attend a "hello" from whoever enters when I'm watching. How can I make a proposal for the forum, I would like to start a thread on "whether or not you really like to be greeted or not at the first instance", as I feel this makes a lot of people run, maybe I am invasive?
I avoid models who do not greet me for the most part. I think saying hello, especially to a registered user, is very reasonable. If the user is "scared" by hello, I don't know why they are there.
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Created by:
gofish
8/3/23 @ 2:00pm
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Location: IN YOUR DREAMS
Posts: 1,727
You are absolutely right, many people enter my room without saying hello, normally I am in front of the camera at least 8 hours a day and I have seen the same user names come and go up to 10 times in 8 hours, I am someone who talks a lot during transmission, exercise, laugh and sing, but I never stop being cordial and greeting, but there are times that after 6 hours and not talking to anyone and see that users only enter to see you and not talk to you, you can get bored and the phone takes control of the situation, but I have never stopped watching the screen or attend a "hello" from whoever enters when I'm watching. How can I make a proposal for the forum, I would like to start a thread on "whether or not you really like to be greeted or not at the first instance", as I feel this makes a lot of people run, maybe I am invasive?
Valerio Caluzzi I sort of think it is logical for a performer on the site to greet anyone entering their room as a sign of interest on your part. Sad to say too often viewers just never respond almost as if there might be a fear that they might caught visiting the chat room or something a long those lines. It is frustrating for you I am sure and a sign of disrespect on the viewers part.
There are I believe too many viewers who are looking for what some might call free porn and care little about the person on the screen. At the same point there are MEMBERS on the site well worth getting to know, but alas odds are they do not want to be the only ones active in the room with others benefiting from the results.
Not sure if there is a fix for this problem, but might be something that flirt should look into.
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Valerio Caluzzi I sort of think it is logical for a performer on the site to greet anyone entering their room as a sign of interest on your part. Sad to say too often viewers just never respond almost as if there might be a fear that they might caught visiting the chat room or something a long those lines. It is frustrating for you I am sure and a sign of disrespect on the viewers part.
There are I believe too many viewers who are looking for what some might call free porn and care little about the person on the screen. At the same point there are MEMBERS on the site well worth getting to know, but alas odds are they do not want to be the only ones active in the room with others benefiting from the results.
Not sure if there is a fix for this problem, but might be something that flirt should look into.
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Created by:
gofish
8/6/23 @ 2:13pm
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Location: IN YOUR DREAMS
Posts: 1,727
I avoid models who do not greet me for the most part. I think saying hello, especially to a registered user, is very reasonable. If the user is "scared" by hello, I don't know why they are there.
alllen11111 just one suggestion don't be too quick to avoid models who do not respond fast. It would seem there might be a time delay before they actually see what you said and take into account some models might need a translator to understand what you say.
It seems many viewers never say HELLO for some strange reason which is really not the best way to engage with the model in question. Probably the 6 million $ question as to why they do this.
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alllen11111 just one suggestion don't be too quick to avoid models who do not respond fast. It would seem there might be a time delay before they actually see what you said and take into account some models might need a translator to understand what you say.
It seems many viewers never say HELLO for some strange reason which is really not the best way to engage with the model in question. Probably the 6 million $ question as to why they do this.
The model sees us before we see the model.
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Can I suggest The Times crossword.... It's devilishly difficult.
More so on Sunday, not so much Monday and Tuesday
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