Hi everyone! 👋

My name is Lindsey Lu, and I’ve been a model on Flirt4Free for almost 3 years.

I’ve been thinking for a long time about whether I should make this post, but I feel like it’s worth bringing up this topic here and hearing different perspectives.

Some people probably know me as the model who isn’t afraid to block users or eject them from my room lol

So here’s my honest question:

How do you deal with members who come into your room over and over again but never even say “hi”?

I’m not talking about brand-new basic accounts with no history. I’m talking about accounts that have been around for a while, repeatedly enter and leave the room, never interact, never greet you, and then sometimes get upset or even insult you because you don’t pay special attention to them or try to keep them in your room.

As a model, I’m genuinely curious:

- How do other models handle this?
- And from the members’ perspective, why do some people choose to do this?
- Do you expect the model to start the conversation every time?
- Is there a better way for us to react?

I’m not trying to judge anyone—I honestly just want to understand different points of view and maybe learn a better approach.

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Hi Lindsey,
I don’t know you and I’ve never been in your room, but I do recognise the behaviour you’re describing, so I thought I’d offer a member’s perspective.

I’ve been around the site for many years. I have several accounts, quite a few of them VIP, and probably at least 40 usernames. The main reason I create new accounts or names is not to cause trouble or be deceptive in a bad way. It’s usually because when I really click with a model and have a great time, I can end up spending a lot of credits.

The problem is that, with some models — and I’m not saying this applies to you, because I don’t know you — the next time you visit, they seem to expect the same level of spending every time. If you don’t spend at that level again, they can sometimes seem disappointed, annoyed, or even hurt. Often I still want to see the model again between bigger shows, but without spending heavily every single visit and without making her feel disappointed.

So sometimes a different username or account feels easier. I’d probably be happy just using a different name, but I’m never completely sure how easily models can connect usernames or recognise members who have spent with them before, so a separate account can feel safer.

There’s another side too. If it’s a model I know well, she may work out who I am from the way I talk, the things I say, or my general style, even if I try not to make it obvious. So sometimes saying nothing can feel like the safest option if I just want to quietly watch for a while.

Also, sometimes guys are just chilling. We’re not always fully alert, sociable, or ready to chat every time we log in. Sometimes someone might be tired, or just in a quiet mood, and simply looking at a pretty girl without meaning any harm.

So my view is that it may be a bit harsh, and maybe pointless, to automatically eject or ban people just because they come in quietly and don’t speak. They might actually be a big fan in disguise, someone who has spent with you before, or just someone relaxing quietly.

That said, I can also understand why it might feel strange or frustrating from the model’s side, especially if someone keeps coming in and out, never speaks, and then complains about not getting attention.

I suppose the best middle ground might be to give quiet members a simple friendly greeting, but not put too much energy into chasing them. If they want attention, they can at least say hello. But if they are just sitting quietly and not being rude, there may not be any bad intention behind it.
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i can't agree more of what wait4tit said... i share same sentiment. its normal for you to feel afraid when someone there sits idle and dont say anything....its valid feeling.. understand that there are lurkers and tourist, sharks, dolphines and whales, open chat is like an ocean of all sort of people... the least u can do is greet them politely as they enter..... what they do and dont is out of your control, so just let them... its when they get rude and disrepectfull you take action of ejecting them....
I have known you for sometime now and i see you as a good friend to me... Quote

i have been ejected by Lindsey Lu for reason i dont know... i have been active in the room even tipping... i did not sit idle but still ejected... i was not rude or anything so please can someone explain?
i love her she the only reason i coming here in flirt 4 free... Quote

Hi. Since you decided to post this publicly, I’d like to explain my side as well.

You entered my room, tipped for a specific request, and I fulfilled it. About an hour later, you came back asking for more of the same content for free.

Tipping once does not mean unlimited free shows afterwards. If someone wants additional content, they need to tip again, just like everyone else.

I appreciate every member who supports me, but I also expect my boundaries and work to be respected.

You were not ejected for tipping. You were ejected because you kept insisting on getting more for free after I had already fulfilled your request and explained my position several times.

I wish you all the best and hope you can understand my point of view as well. Quote

i love her she the only reason i coming here in flirt 4 free...


That is your mistake.
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i have been ejected by Lindsey Lu for reason i dont know... i have been active in the room even tipping... i did not sit idle but still ejected... i was not rude or anything so please can someone explain?
i love her she the only reason i coming here in flirt 4 free...




Lindsey wont eject you for no reason at all, you might. have done something against her room rules... but its just ejection you can come back and reset and be at your best behaviour! its time to prove to her that you worthy of her attention.. i hope this helps... Quote

I tipped 1000 credits from a different model's profile page. Banned, told to never send another credit, banned on her Insta, Banned on her X account. Just for a 1000 credit tip from a profile page. She doesn't want credits from me, I should get them back. Quote

I tipped 1000 credits from a different model's profile page. Banned, told to never send another credit, banned on her Insta, Banned on her X account. Just for a 1000 credit tip from a profile page. She doesn't want credits from me, I should get them back.


Hi,

I believe there may be some confusion here, because I honestly have no idea who you are.

I have never seen you in my room, and I have not received a 1000-credit tip from anyone in recent months. If you tipped another model, then this situation has nothing to do with me.

Also, I do not have Instagram or X accounts connected to my work, so it would be impossible for me to block you there.

As for the forum, the topic I created was not about banning or attacking anyone. I posted it because I genuinely wanted to understand how other models and members deal with people who repeatedly enter and leave rooms without interacting or saying hello. It was simply a discussion about communication and different points of view.

If you are referring to another model, I would recommend contacting site support or speaking directly with that model instead.

I wish you the best and hope you can resolve the situation.
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Hi,

I believe there may be some confusion here, because I honestly have no idea who you are.

I have never seen you in my room, and I have not received a 1000-credit tip from anyone in recent months. If you tipped another model, then this situation has nothing to do with me.

Also, I do not have Instagram or X accounts connected to my work, so it would be impossible for me to block you there.

As for the forum, the topic I created was not about banning or att acking anyone. I posted it because I genuinely wanted to understand how other models and members deal with people who repeatedly enter and leave rooms without interacting or saying hello. It was simply a discussion about communication and different points of view.

If you are referring to another model, I would recommend contacting site support or speaking directly with that model instead.

I wish you the best and hope you can resolve the situation.



Different model. Sharing to show that a model sometimes doesn't need a reason to ban a person. I cannot talk to the model as she has me banned everywhere.

I do not understand people that just enter and leave all the time. If you enter a model's room, be polite. Show interest. Engage with that model. I believe that lots of users are just looking for free nudity. Those need to be banned from the site, permanently.

Another thing models need to understand, these users tipping are not friends. They are there for nudity and sexual gratification. They have no deep appreciation for any woman. I appreciate the model I tipped. It shows by my tipping from her bio page and not in her room. It was not me looking for nudity or sexual gratification. But the users that are in there tipping for nudity and sex are not friends and get better appreciation than I ever got. I have almost 100,000 credits now just sitting here not being spent. Wasted all that money because I am not a pig like the rest.
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Different model. Sharing to show that a model sometimes doesn't need a reason to ban a person. I cannot talk to the model as she has me banned everywhere.

I do not understand people that just enter and leave all the time. If you enter a model's room, be polite. Show interest. Engage with that model. I believe that lots of users are just looking for free nudity. Those need to be banned from the site, permanently.

Another thing models need to understand, these users tipping are not friends. They are there for nudity and sexual gratification. They have no deep appreciation for any woman. I appreciate the model I tipped. It shows by my tipping from her bio page and not in her room. It was not me looking for nudity or sexual gratification. But the users that are in there tipping for nudity and sex are not friends and get better appreciation than I ever got. I have almost 100,000 credits now just sitting here not being spent. Wasted all that money because I am not a pig like the rest.




Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective.

I’m sorry that happened to you, and I hope you won’t have to go through a situation like that again in the future.

As for my topic, I was simply trying to better understand different points of view and how both models and members feel about these situations.

My problem is that I could easily ban 30+ inactive people a day. But if I do that, my rank goes down, and it can make me look bad as a model. It’s the reason why i created this topic in forum for to read some advices from other.

I appreciate your contribution to the discussion and wish you all the best. Quote

Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective.

I’m sorry that happened to you, and I hope you won’t have to go through a situation like that again in the future.

As for my topic, I was simply trying to better understand different points of view and how both models and members feel about these situations.

My problem is that I could easily ban 30+ inactive people a day. But if I do that, my rank goes down, and it can make me look bad as a model. It’s the reason why i created this topic in forum for to read some advices from other.

I appreciate your contribution to the discussion and wish you all the best.


Always try to be honest. Don't be a lying narcissist like that other model. She is also an ingrate. Never be like her.
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don't blame members sitting idle doing nothing if you (model) yourself do nothing in your room in the first place...you make no effort at all to make the room engaging to members. you always on your phone , You can make room engaging even without shedding any body covering! not all coming here are perverts, some just need good company, friendly intelligent conversation, and exchanging ideas, sexually or not! ...
i hope you make adjustment . . and dont take these against me, its for yoir own good.. Quote

Different model. Sharing to show that a model sometimes doesn't need a reason to ban a person. I cannot talk to the model as she has me banned everywhere.

I do not understand people that just enter and leave all the time. If you enter a model's room, be polite. Show interest. Engage with that model. I believe that lots of users are just looking for free nudity. Those need to be banned from the site, permanently.

Another thing models need to understand, these users tipping are not friends. They are there for nudity and sexual gratification. They have no deep appreciation for any woman. I appreciate the model I tipped. It shows by my tipping from her bio page and not in her room. It was not me looking for nudity or sexual gratification. But the users that are in there tipping for nudity and sex are not friends and get better appreciation than I ever got. I have almost 100,000 credits now just sitting here not being spent. Wasted all that money because I am not a pig like the rest.




you are ingrate yourself! dangling your 100,000 credits for model to salivate!


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don't blame members sitting idle doing nothing if you (model) yourself do nothing in your room in the first place...you make no effort at all to make the room engaging to members. you always on your phone , You can make room engaging even without shedding any body covering! not all coming here are perverts, some just need good company, friendly intelligent conversation, and exchanging ideas, sexually or not! ...
i hope you make adjustment . . and dont take these against me, its for yoir own good..



Thank you for your feedback.

I understand your point, but you only see a small part of what happens during my stream.

Sometimes I use my phone to translate messages, answer important texts, look up information, or prepare ideas for conversations with my members. It doesn’t mean I’m ignoring my room.

Thank you again for sharing your opinion. Quote

Constantly banning ppl when all we see when we come in her room is her face zoomed in, like guys will stay if interested and ain't nothing interesting about seeing jus a RBF on a site like this just being honest Quote

Constantly banning ppl when all we see when we come in her room is her face zoomed in, like guys will stay if interested and ain't nothing interesting about seeing jus a RBF on a site like this just being honest Quote

Constantly banning ppl when all we see when we come in her room is her face zoomed in, like guys will stay if interested and ain't nothing interesting about seeing jus a RBF on a site like this just being honest



I don’t ban people without a reason. If someone keeps entering and leaving my room over and over without saying a single word, then what’s the point of being there? You’re actually the first time I’ve ever seen your username, so it’s a little strange that you’re acting like you know exactly what happens in my room.

I created that forum thread because I wanted advice on how other models deal with silent visitors and people who constantly lurk without interacting. That’s what the discussion was about.

Also, everyone is free to have an opinion, but you don’t know me or how I run my room. If you’re not interested, that’s completely fine—there are thousands of other rooms to visit. But calling someone boring or judging them based on a few seconds in a room doesn’t make your opinion an objective fact.

A simple “hi” takes one second. If someone can’t even do that, I don’t see why I should be expected to entertain them. Quote

I am the dumbest man alive. The woman I love has banned and ejected me from her life. Now I am trolling this waste of a site. Have fun. Off to find another place to vent. Quote

I had to remove my fav model from favs and turn off notifications. Then blocked her on Insta, She treated me with disrespect and showed me just how little I mean to her. She claimed one thing, but then shared personal details with another user. Details she refused to tell me. Quote